Five-decade UK study finds that aggression at school leads to better-paying jobs, while those with emotional instability went on to earn less
  • IninewCrow@lemmy.caEnglish
    121·
    8 months ago

    Because childhood bullies have psychopathic tendencies and lack empathy, a great set of traits that are rewarded in a capitalistic system when they become adults. Capitalism tends to reward the worst of our species with the greatest amount of power and wealth.

            • silliewous@feddit.nlEnglish
              12·
              8 months ago

              No worries I’ll not perceive it as rude if you have a point. Which I seriously don’t get now. You wanna say that children have equal understanding of the world as adults? Or you just don’t want me to call them dumb?

              • stevedidwhat_infosec@infosec.pubEnglish
                1·
                8 months ago

                I said what you said was shallow. That’s it

                Pretty moot point overall, what does that have anything to do with what I was talking about?

                • silliewous@feddit.nlEnglish
                  11·
                  8 months ago

                  But you’re afraid telling me why it is shallow. And I’m telling you it’s not rude. Only reason not to give it at this point is that you actually haven’t reasoned through it properly.

    • Demigod787@lemmy.worldEnglish
      18·
      8 months ago

      Sadly that’s untrue, it’s simply human nature. Bullies are usually in the popular, social, etc group. And when they pick targets they usually pick people with weaker mentality, personality, or are odd and unusual. One such personality are people who are unempathatic, lack social skills. In a sense they target people that don’t fit in.

      Kids who grew up as bullies get rewarded later in life because they’re simply more social and more likely to start businesses.

      Obviously we can’t speak with broad strokes in all cases however it’s a common observation.

      • IninewCrow@lemmy.caEnglish
        4·
        8 months ago

        I base it on life experience and the people I’ve known in my life.

        I’ve watched countless empathetic people do good for others and they never grew any wealthier than when they were 20.

        I’ve also seen lots of people completely disregard others, take advantage of as many as possible and as often as they can and got rewarded at every step to the point they became enormously wealthy.

        The lack of empathy for others directly correlated to the amount of wealth a person has. You have to be a certain kind of mentality to believe that you can own outrageous amounts of money while others are struggling around you.

        You have to be psychopathic to want to own enough money to last a thousand lifetimes to live in a world where you know others are starving and dying because they have nothing … and often because of ones insatiable need to want to own the entire world.

      • winterayars@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        4·
        8 months ago

        It’s really not. That’s capitalist propaganda.

        For example, you can have counterculture groups where that kind of behavior is discouraged rather than embraced. Which is not to say that it’s impossible for something like this to happen in those groups (for someone with authoritarian desires to get what they want) but the fact that they’re consistently rewarded for it in our modern world is not human nature. It’s the world we built.

        See: psychopathic/antisocial (in the modern, psychological diagnostic sense) tendencies being overrepresented at the top of authority structures.

        As long as we, as a society, highly value those authoritarian modes of organization we’re going to be rewarding people for this behavior.

  • stevedidwhat_infosec@infosec.pubEnglish
    21·
    8 months ago

    Someone rename this guardian article to:

    Kids with traumatic childhoods tend to carry that with them forward in life affecting their day to day

    or

    Bullies enabled by parents and environment to continue bullying shockingly continue this behavior into their careers where “dogs” are more valued than free thinking/diverse individuals.

    Biiiiiig shocker but let’s keep ignoring the effects of systemic problems and just Stockholm ourselves into thinking that this is actually just reality

    Capitalism is so cool and effective at bringing the best out of society let’s keep it around forever

  • breadsmasher@lemmy.worldEnglish
    0·
    8 months ago

    Hypothetically, if there was an omnipotent way to be sure of who is a bully vs who is being bullied and completely segregated them, would the bullied ones have a better chance? Would the two segregated groups then split into bullies and bullied again?