When someone says my name with the correct pronunciation and accent 😳 how do they know my true name
You jest, sir, but this is the reason I purposefully got a British therapist instead of using my native language in therapy.
I can totally relate
This is why, as a native English speaker, I just never express my emotions.
Similar here, my partner and I are mostly talking in English for non-important/silly stuff and switch to French when things said are serious/important. A way to separate real/serious from joking/sarcasm.
Makes sense: English is a completely unserious language.
Me and my wife and half my friends irl
English is my native language. I’m reasonably fluent in some parts of life in French but I feel like if I were to try to have a deeper conversation about something like emotions I would struggle to find the right words. Is that kind of what makes it easier for you non-native speakers that are identifying with this post?
I couldn’t find the exact article I read before, but I found one talking about how processing discomfort through an L2 was less emotionally distressing than in the native lang
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/02699931.2018.1540403
I feel this one. Things I say in a foreign language don’t really have emotional weight
En tant qu’Américain, je peux être plus honnête émotionnellement avec moins de coûts émotionnels cuando hablo una lengua que no se llama inglés.
Fühl ich
I do same, when i need to abuse. It makes me feel less guilty.