How is it going for you, good, unsatisfactory, non-existent?..
I am single. I get dates but I have been stuck in a rut for almost 5 years of only attracting women who are 100% of the opposite of my values and what I’m looking for. So I can get laid, but its otherwise miserable. I haven’t met anyone who I was genuinely excited about since 2018. Just about two dozen people who seemed cool at first but turned out to be complete lying jerks after a month or two, looking for me to be their daddy. It’s gross.
I’d like to find someone who is progressive and intellectual, and who isn’t obsessed with money and materialism, but they simply don’t seem to exist in my city. Most of my first dates are just ladies complaining about how broke they are on their six figure salaries… ugh.
Wow, I can understand that frustration. Who would’ve thought that not being shallow makes dating much more difficult?
I am just lonely in general and just finding someone who is interested in me in general is enough of a challenge. I’m exhausted.
As a shut-in with no prospects, no-one can see me.
Why do you feel you have no prospect?
Jobless, medical issues, in a rural area, and more.