The dismissiveness and “if that makes you feel better” is necessary because you’re getting hot and bothered about what they’re doing in their life. It’s not a bad-faith argument - they are simply telling you the other option they are willing to take. Which they know, I know, you know, and everybody who reads this thread knows is not your preferred outcome, but it clearly demonstrates that that is more of an option to them than toeing the party line in a broken system that they lack faith in.
Regardless of what you consider it, I consider it a reasonable argument and tells you where they stand.
Regardless of the reason for it, it was a bad faith argument, because it doesn’t change anything about the point I made. And you still have not addressed this.
I consider it a reasonable argument and tells you where they stand.
“they know, I know, you know, and everybody who reads this thread knows” where they stand. This isn’t hard to grasp. What I’m pointing out is that their response to it is irrational. We both agree that we would prefer it be different. The difference between us is I understand the game we are playing, and understand I should be using my vote with that in mind. The other poster is just going to throw it away due to vanity, as actually voting third party does absolutely nothing to solve anything.
Their response is not irrational. They feel unrepresented by the system, so they would rather let it fall to pieces and fight, if it comes to that.
The difference is that you wish to win, following the rules of the game. They want to change the game. Perhaps your method will work, perhaps it won’t. But letting it escalate will definitely bring change. Perhaps it will be change they end up hating. Perhaps it’ll be what they want. Either way, things change. Implicit abuses of authority are hard to fight unless you have a solid bead on the issues. Explicit abuses of authority at least give you a target - and if things have gotten to the point of war, you can actually shoot at that target.
In any case, rationality is often the enemy of action. A thousand people waiting until they have the definitively right direction end up doing little. A thousand people with a rough idea of what they want, and willing to take action, win, lose, or draw, will get things done.
This relates to the whole “reality-based community” issue.
Their response is not irrational. They feel unrepresented by the system, so they would rather let it fall to pieces and fight, if it comes to that.
Except I was feeling them out for what is their ultimate goal, and at no point did they say anything about the whole system falling apart. You are trying to rationalize their actions, but it is, frankly, just irrational. But even if it were “let the whole system fall apart” that’s also irrational because, chances are, it’s not them that is going to come out on top. It will continue to be people who currently have the power.
The difference is that you wish to win, following the rules of the game. They want to change the game
Not mutually exclusive. I understand the game I am playing, and play with those rules, and act rationally within those rules. I understand that you don’t change this by voting third party for president. I know that might feel good, like you are doing something, making your voice heard. But it’s just pissing in the wind. If one wants to change this, it comes from the floor up, and it’s something I do push locally as well.
In any case, rationality is often the enemy of action. A thousand people waiting until they have the definitively right direction end up doing little.
We do know the way forward, it’s working from the ground up. It’s getting our election system changed. No single president can change this, which is exactly why protesting the presidential election in this way is pointless.
I’ve already said what i have to say. …I doubt you’ve convinced them, but it’s good you have a passion and are pressing that direction. I understand that you think their take is irrational. I don’t think their take is irrational, though it’s not how I view things. Same as with yours.
In any case, it’s good you have a passion for a way forward, and it sounds like you’re willing to pursue it. You’ll still have to accept the existence of those who don’t think like you, and who don’t agree with you, and wish to live their lives their own way. You either make room for them, or you fight them - and it seems like you have other, more important battles, which have a higher likelihood of success than trying to stop someone from thinking the way they do.
Goodnight, and goodbye - say your final piece, and make it good for those who come after, since that’s your real audience. Above all, though, I hope life is interesting and enjoyable for you.
The dismissiveness and “if that makes you feel better” is necessary because you’re getting hot and bothered about what they’re doing in their life. It’s not a bad-faith argument - they are simply telling you the other option they are willing to take. Which they know, I know, you know, and everybody who reads this thread knows is not your preferred outcome, but it clearly demonstrates that that is more of an option to them than toeing the party line in a broken system that they lack faith in.
Regardless of what you consider it, I consider it a reasonable argument and tells you where they stand.
Regardless of the reason for it, it was a bad faith argument, because it doesn’t change anything about the point I made. And you still have not addressed this.
“they know, I know, you know, and everybody who reads this thread knows” where they stand. This isn’t hard to grasp. What I’m pointing out is that their response to it is irrational. We both agree that we would prefer it be different. The difference between us is I understand the game we are playing, and understand I should be using my vote with that in mind. The other poster is just going to throw it away due to vanity, as actually voting third party does absolutely nothing to solve anything.
Their response is not irrational. They feel unrepresented by the system, so they would rather let it fall to pieces and fight, if it comes to that.
The difference is that you wish to win, following the rules of the game. They want to change the game. Perhaps your method will work, perhaps it won’t. But letting it escalate will definitely bring change. Perhaps it will be change they end up hating. Perhaps it’ll be what they want. Either way, things change. Implicit abuses of authority are hard to fight unless you have a solid bead on the issues. Explicit abuses of authority at least give you a target - and if things have gotten to the point of war, you can actually shoot at that target.
In any case, rationality is often the enemy of action. A thousand people waiting until they have the definitively right direction end up doing little. A thousand people with a rough idea of what they want, and willing to take action, win, lose, or draw, will get things done.
This relates to the whole “reality-based community” issue.
Except I was feeling them out for what is their ultimate goal, and at no point did they say anything about the whole system falling apart. You are trying to rationalize their actions, but it is, frankly, just irrational. But even if it were “let the whole system fall apart” that’s also irrational because, chances are, it’s not them that is going to come out on top. It will continue to be people who currently have the power.
Not mutually exclusive. I understand the game I am playing, and play with those rules, and act rationally within those rules. I understand that you don’t change this by voting third party for president. I know that might feel good, like you are doing something, making your voice heard. But it’s just pissing in the wind. If one wants to change this, it comes from the floor up, and it’s something I do push locally as well.
We do know the way forward, it’s working from the ground up. It’s getting our election system changed. No single president can change this, which is exactly why protesting the presidential election in this way is pointless.
I’ve already said what i have to say. …I doubt you’ve convinced them, but it’s good you have a passion and are pressing that direction. I understand that you think their take is irrational. I don’t think their take is irrational, though it’s not how I view things. Same as with yours.
In any case, it’s good you have a passion for a way forward, and it sounds like you’re willing to pursue it. You’ll still have to accept the existence of those who don’t think like you, and who don’t agree with you, and wish to live their lives their own way. You either make room for them, or you fight them - and it seems like you have other, more important battles, which have a higher likelihood of success than trying to stop someone from thinking the way they do.
Goodnight, and goodbye - say your final piece, and make it good for those who come after, since that’s your real audience. Above all, though, I hope life is interesting and enjoyable for you.