How was your week? Got lifestyle plans for the weekend? If you’re new to the magazine, say hello!

I don’t have any plans this weekend, but we’ll see what happens. During the week, one of my partners is going to spend the night, maybe two nights, and for us that’s pretty unusual. Here’s hoping it goes well.

  • atlhart@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    I’ll go.

    My wife and I started dipping our toes into the hotwife thing last year. If merged with a bit of poly as she developed a dating relationship with one man. It was really fun. Things started to get less on the ethical side, so that’s morphed into a non sexual relationship.

    We were talking about what was fun about it and what’s next. My wife shared that she’s more interested in finding a couple to swing with than just hotwife, so we’ll probably explore that in the future.

    How do y’all go about finding other couples? We’re way more interested in finding a couple we can also be friends with and hang out with. Go to dinner, have over for bbqs, but also dtf :). What are the best ways to meet folks like that?

    Edit: I recognize this is the “unicorn” couple, but I guess more to the point we’re not looking to go to a club and play right now. We’re trying to meet a couple with at least somewhat similar interest/mentalities that we can laugh with while enjoying the lifestyle.

    • Grumpycat8@kbin.socialOP
      2·
      1 year ago

      @atlhart

      Well, there’s dating apps. Feeld and OKCupid let you filter for couples and non-monogamous folks.

      Or, swinger parties. You can go to those without taking your clothes off, of you’re not comfortable with that yet. Just meet people. FetLife and SwingLifeStyle are the web sites to start there.