I’m not a german fellow, but I have a netizen friend who feels incredibly anxious and wasn’t able to get friends in school, due to immense bullyings. They only have friends from the internet, and they have tried to socialize in a fishbowl event but they weren’t able to get a friend there as I feel it.

In my country there is an event organization called havervagy, which has a bunch of events, where everyone is spliited into 3-4 people sized groups where they can get to know eachother. Do you perhaps have something similar to this one in Germany? My friend lives in West Germany, closer to the border of Netherlands.

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    2 months ago

    First of all: Do they want to make real live friends? having only internet friends doesn’t sound too bad, does it?

    they have tried to socialize in a fishbowl event but they weren’t able to get a friend there as I feel it.

    you don’t get a friends from a single event. give it more time. much more time. some other comment mention hobbies or groups, and i think this is the key: you don’t go to those events because you want to make friend, but because of you interest and you make friends by accident. Don’t pressure it!

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      2 months ago

      Well having online friends are sure than nothing, but they really want irl ones. Thank you for the advice, consistency truly could be a key.