• potoo22@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    Having both, idk, it’s like I have to expect chaos to be okay with it. Like, I take my ADHD spouse on a date and I expect they’ll want to spontaneously go places, and I’ll be okay with that. If I’m driving home on a routine grocery run and they suddenly call and want takeout… I have to calm myself.

    • Bonesince1997@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      At the very least, rolling with it or especially having someone roll with what you have to throw at them/the world has to be somewhat rewarding.