This above was in reference to the course of a long weekend when our daughter typically doesn’t have homework and we went on a long and very fun trip together. Prior to that, my ex-wife had her an entire week. During that time she could have worked with her to get anything she needed to have done, during her time. I’m sure by now my ex-wife is putting on a good story to her family, friends and attorney, telling them she doesn’t have narcissistic tendencies and that I’m the one that is an alcoholic and mentally unstable. I can tell you it takes a very strong person to deal with this type of behavior without snapping. Fortunately, I have a high threshold for pain, both physically 😉 and mentally, as I’m sure some of her family already know.

This above behavior is explained very nicely in this article: Covert-Aggression and the Gaslighting Effect:

https://www.drgeorgesimon.com/covert-aggression-and-the-gaslighting-effect

Mom’s latest:

Wilma still has homework and sounds like she is not anywhere near home. Before agreeing to taking her to places knowing you need to get her home, needing to get your car serviced for long distances, please have discussions with her about whether she has completed her homework so that you can plan responsibly and accordingly so she gets home at a decent hour so she is rested for school. She has math homework due tomorrow and 2 study guides due on Wednesday. Last time she didn’t get the study books done because you distracted her and she wanted to come home when you were drunk.

Please plan better.

After the hearing, my ex-wife sends me 6 emails. This is how she lashes out when she is angry. She swamps me with insulting emails thinking they will have an affect after justice was finally served. I’m $5k in the hole in attorney fees for this little stunt, but I’m on cloud-9 after the ruling in my favor. Her lashing out is called narcissistic rage.

Yeah. I had an alcoholic Mom, that managed to beat it. My Mother was a wonderful Mom and she was very supportive of me and a wonderful person to everyone she knew. My ex-wife doesn’t drink, but if anyone should, it is her. She’s real classy, bringing up the past about my deceased Mother. She’ll probably try and flip the script on this one, like the fact she can’t pay her mortgage. My former-alcoholic deceased Mom always had a saying for fools that made claims like this. It’s called crying with a loaf of bread under arm.

Pathetic.

I used to have 11" leather paratrooper boots with the zipper on the side. There was nothing like kicking someone in the face or getting kicked in the face, and then laughing and doing shots with them afterwards.