I feel that downvotes serve an important purpose both in keeping out spam, but also in preserving the many-niches architecture common in porn. Without downvotes even more work will be put onto mods in order to make sure the content posted is relevant to the communities its being posted too. Take c/Hotwife which has recently had a few postings that have 0 to do with hotwifing. Allowing downvotes is an imperfect solution, but I think an important one.

My partner and I are in a Stag/Vixen dynamic, so the humiliation aspects of Cuckqueaning is not really for us. In a previous relationship I had a casual sex partner who liked giving head, and she always tried to get me to compare her to my ex which made me hella uncomfortable and led to me no longer seeing her. I just don’t like putting people down in that way. More passive degradation, like making the cuckquean eat a load out of the cuckcake I like though, so long as the cuckquean gets off on it too