A few examples include s*x questions on askreddit, “this” comments, nolife powermods, jokes being more frequent than actual answers

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      Now Holup, I came here to say this. Have my updoot kind internet stranger.

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          If I had gold, I would gift this post! Have this instead:

          
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    Needlessly censoring words like sex. It wasn’t necessary on Reddit and it certainly isn’t necessary now.

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    Reddit became too America focused. Most of the posts were about America or assumed everyone reading was American. It felt very exclusionary.

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      I think this will remain a problem on any platform that includes enough Americans. The general public in America just seems unaware of anything outside America.

      I think this stems from their education system, what they (don’t) broadcast on mass-media and how normal and even laudable they consider fanatical nationalism to be (did you know they require children to swear devotion to the nation state every day at school!?).

      In any case, I don’t think this is a problem that any platform that wants to include Americans can avoid.

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        (did you know they require children to swear devotion to the nation state every day at school!?).

        Untrue. Happens in some areas, but far from universal. However, it is weird (self-loathing american reporting).

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        It’s also that it’s legitimately unusual to travel to another country more than once or twice before you’re an adult because of the geography.

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      Well I think ideally that’s what different instances should help. I’m on a Canadian instance with a lot of Canadian specific communities. I’ve seen instances of many other specific countries. That should theoretically counter that whole experience on Reddit

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          Which honestly has been one of my favourite features of Lemmy so far. I can browse All to see what everyone is talking about, I can browse Subscribed to see what I care about and I can browse Local to see what Canadians care about.

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      I saw this complaint on reddit a lot, but at the end of the day, it was a US based site. Of course there will be mostly Americans and they will default to that understanding.

      Also, the US is a large country. It’s not like Europe where you’re a day trip away from 5 other countries. Most Americans can’t afford travel outside the US, so they only have exposure to the many cultures within the US.

      The hate Americans get for not catering discussion on a US based site to the global community is really what’s strange.

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        Most Americans can’t afford travel outside the US, so they only have exposure to the many cultures within the US.

        You can travel in a straight line over land 2700 miles from Washington to Florida without leaving the United States. Make a foray into Canada and you can travel a 4300 mile long straight line from Alaska to Florida without leaving a country that speaks majority English.

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          I’m pretty sure that if you visit all states and provinces, it would be a lot more than 4300 miles

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            True that. I was just looking at straight lines (or what “straight line” is when you’re traveling across a sphere)

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        The hate Americans get for not catering discussion on a US based site to the global community is really what’s strange.

        I just want y’all to stop saying shit like “oh xyz is like 20$ right now” like it’s just as cheap everywhere else in the world.

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        My other irk is the next group that assumes everyone who isn’t American must be from Europe.

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        I appreciate that. What bugs me is when people don’t read the name of the sub they’re in though - if it’s askUK or casualuk then maybe it’s not the place to talk about America, particularly when it’s an advice thread about laws for example.

        Just some self awareness would be good.

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          I’m curious, which part is a myth? I only see facts and not all of them paint America as great.

          These things exist elsewhere, besides. Just not always in “the West.”

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              Let me simplify this. Would you go to a forum with an address in .ar and complain that the discussion doesn’t pertain to you? You wouldn’t, but you are just blindly hateful of Americans for whatever reason.

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                  America is far from a monolith. Our states roughly equate to different European countries with vastly different cultures, foods, rights and laws.

                  We just speak dialects that are almost all the same and roll up under one political entity. It is not so dissimilar than the EU, otherwise.

                  We are, in many practical terms a forced confederation with a shared Constitution. There are those, like in the EU, who want out.

                  Edit: the shared single language is one of our under-recognized super-powers. I can travel this huge land mass and communicate viably everywhere. It is key to our cultural impact. It is accidental, but helpful to us. Except when we have people who dislike our impact and become hostile.

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              Which Americans are you talking to? We know there are other countries and cultures. We just aren’t responsible for learning deeply about all of them. No one is.

              You’re using some strong, broad strokes that aren’t reflective of my experience at all.

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      Christ, yes. Every other comment or post was something that assumed everyone was in the USA, or that they were the greatest most perfect wonderful nation and all others are basically hell on earth.

      🤦‍♀️

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        Literally full of shit lmao. Who on reddit mainstream is talking about how the US is the greatest place on Earth.

        Usually its the entire other way around where Reddit is acting like the apocalypse is about to start at any point.

        Here’s a new one for this thread. “People who complain about Americans over the dumbest things”. It’s straight up like you have a chip on your shoulder.

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      But that were some good opportunities to dunk on the world epicenter, i’ve always took them

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        What id like to see on Lemmy is less America-hate… Or just hating on countries in general. Hatable humans live in countries, let’s talk about them instead of everybody in that country. “Gunshot story? Must be America!” Gets old really quick

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          I hate many countries, USA included. But not the people. Heck I even hate my own country.

          The thing is, the people don’t run those countries.

          But, also I do need to mention that the laws that are being made do affect the society and their ideas.

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            This, nationalism is just the worst. You’ve achieved nothing by being born in a certain country, waving that flag around proudly thinking you’re superior to anyone else is just something i can’t understand.

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    If you can’t even get yourself to write the word sex, the questions on askreddit were probably not the issue…

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    I’m a linux developer of 25+ years and I’m permanently banned from /r/linux because I dared criticize systemd.

    My answer is therefore: Power-tripping mods. Where mods are required, ensure the community has the ability to oust them.

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      Shitting on someone just for not liking systemd is really stupid. FOSS thrives on diversity, and having alternatives to systemd’s parts will always be a plus. I’m okay with systemd myself, but it’s easy to understand why some might not like it.

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        The Linux community tends to have some ego which think they have figured it all out, elitism is a problem which needs to be addressed more often in my opinion.

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      There was a mod drama over there at Linux too. After a while, the power tripping mod was kicked out and a lot of the banned accounts were restored (including one of mine). Things were okay until spez.

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      A ban transparency list, kinda like a certificate transparency list, would be great but the big issue is that you can’t keep publicly hosting prohibited content…

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      If you don’t mind me asking, what is bad about systemd is there a post anywhere?

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        Yeah, I was having a whinge about it here the other day. Just a sec while I dig up the corpse…

        Systemd* removes choice*, and it was designed to do so. That is why there is so much anger. It is bad software design, by design. It flies in the face of the core linux principles, all in the name of homogenising the linux ecosystem, and you know exactly which big corporations benefit from that.

        The simple fact is: today, if I want to run a mainstream distro without Systemd, I cannot. Its cancerous tentacles run so deep that decoupling it from a mainstream distro, and keeping it decoupled, is a full time job.

        Instead I have no choice but to run a smaller, less featured, less secure and less funded alternative. Good luck getting Gnome to work without systemd.

        Full credit to Devuan, MxLinux, Artix, and the other united underdogs.

        Fuck you Redhat/IBM and your proxy evil-doer Lennart.

        But if you want to read more about how why others hate systemd, there’s no shortage of material: https://suckless.org/sucks/systemd https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/21616608 https://without-systemd.org/wiki/index_php/Main_Page.html https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=18873851

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            Indeed, it seems I was wrong. However, I’ve just had a look at the “Gnome without systemd project” for Gentoo. The fact it is an entire project kinda supports my point.

            I mean, just have a look at that project and how much effort it takes to run Gnome without systemd. It would almost be easier to install LFS.

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              You’re not wrong. Never the less I’m thankfull that some people took the effort to make stuff run without crapd.

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      I’m waiting for that to get implemented in Lemmy, but I feel like that is going to take a while unless volunteers get it working.

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    I might be in the minority, but shitpost memes like “I’ll draw a shitty picture every day until x happens” or “I’ll do this based on Y upvotes”, and the “here’s a random hotdog/Gatorade bottle everyday”. I know I can probably just block these kinds of posts, I just never got the appeal of it.

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      Some projects can be kind of interesting, most aren’t though, and I can agree with the sentiment

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      Dedication. In a world where not doing things is vastly easier than doing things, the fact that they would do anything is frankly, a marvel.

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    I don’t get the issue with sex questions. If people enjoy reading them and answering them why should anyone stop them. If you don’t like them, don’t click the thread.

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    Allowing racists and fascists a seat at the table under the guise of ‘fairness’ or ‘free speech’. Reddit became polluted with far-right astroturfing in the last six years.

    It is not tolerance to welcome those persons who seek to harm you.

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    Ending community names with “porn”, so earthporn, designporn always kinda bugged me for some reason. I like porn. I like beautiful non-porn pictures of nature and awesome design too. I just don’t know why we need to conflate them or use the term ‘porn’ as shorthand.

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      Because it’s cheeky shorthand that conveys a certain aesthetic fixation with whatever the subject matter is. It’s certainly more interesting than just appending “pics” to everything. I’m open to alternatives, but language changes, and I’ve already gotten so used to it I don’t even think of actual pornography first when I hear the term.

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      I always expected someone to coin the term pornporn to describe the excess of pornographic images. Alas, it was not to be.

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    Making all these posts on Lemmy be about another site.

    The community won’t flourish if the only thing people are talking about is their social-media ex.

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    Long, predictable comment chains that get repeated over and over e.g. song lyrics