• Leeker@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Honestly I don’t even know where to begin with this comment. Like, blaming people for their miscarriage is a taboo and for good reason. It doesn’t matter how right you might be, it is still wrong on so many levels.

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      8 months ago

      Yep. But it’s fun to stop and realize how fucking hilariously bizarre we are as a species; pretending we’re highly evolved logical beings.

      We each make our existences more miserable out of politeness. A concept that has shifted and lurched over humanity’s existence.

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        8 months ago

        Yes, hilarious to think that we don’t blame parents of a miscarriage for their miscarriage? The fuck is wrong with you mate? I really hope you never have to go through that shit, because it’s fucking miserable and crushing…and you want to laugh about how “hilariously bizarre” it is to help people cope and deal with the pain of loss.

        This is like some red-pilled, trolling 14 year old shit, and like any other teenage ignorant rationality, fucking incorrect and misleading.

        Miscarriages can happen for so many reasons, in fact, it’s so common that around 1/5 pregnancies end in a miscarriage. It’s estimated that only around half are due to genetic abnormalities during development, the other half is due to structural issues in the uterus, nutrient and chemical imbalances, and other external factors outside of the uterus that can cause it. Hell, it’s not even been proven if the causes of miscarriages are hereditary or not, and you think your so “enlightened” as to why they happen that your willing to just casually blame the parents, like your some sperged abortion guru.

        Knock if off with dumb, ignorant shit like this. It’s not to late for you to start being a better person.

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          8 months ago

          Yes. Exactly that sort of emotional reaction is so fascinating. And I’m certainly not pretending I wouldn’t feel the same way about this or any other thing.

          But try remove yourself from the humanity of it, if you can. Imagine looking at us as a distant observer, a few galaxy over.

          Our lives are so silly and random and meaningless and we take much of it all so seriously.

          How close were any of us to being naturally aborted?

          Life is suffering only if you allow it to be. I choose to enjoy the ride. Sorry, not sorry that my life philosophy offends you. There is a beauty to having no purpose, purpose a limitation.

          To pull from Rick and Morty like any edgelord should, “What is my purpose” – I’d rather it be “none, you fucking don’t matter,” than “you make baby” or “you pass the butter”

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            8 months ago

            Stop doubling down, ffs. On top of being terribly insensitive, you’re wrong. Reason is not on your side. Time to take the L and disappear.

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              8 months ago

              Your claiming that I am wrong and your insistence that I “take the L” together indicate you are approaching this from emotion rather than reason.

              You have made no attempt to back up your claims and so my only option is to dismiss them.

              The divide between comforting lies and unpleasant truths is very clearly at play for this issue.

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                8 months ago

                I am not, other posters have materially demonstrated that you are incorrect. My comment was advice for you. Take a moment to step back and consider the rational arguments made against you talking out of your ass about things you don’t know about.

                And stop with that edgelord attitude. It won’t do you any good out there. You’re not the cold genius you think you are.

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                  8 months ago

                  Science is on my side here.

                  The majority of miscarriages are from chromosomal abnormalities.

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                    8 months ago

                    Of the fetus/embryo, not of the parents, you freak. You were talking about gene mixes, as if the combination of the two parents was the cause. While it can happen in some cases, there’s a plethora of environmental factors at play here. Stop with the bullshit broscience, you don’t know shit about reproductive science.