• Clent@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      Not matter how insurmountable it may seem, I suggest you take a few minutes, each day, week, month to plan an escape in secret. Find allies outside of the relationship. Leave nothing behind you cannot replace, especially child and animals.

      Make multiple escape plans, no matter how unlikely they seem.

      The more the better so when an opportunity presents itself you are already read and just go. The element of surprise is critical.