If you write the words “cis” or “cisgender” on X, you might be served this full-screen message: "This post contains language that may be considered a slur

    • Z3k3@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      Anything can be a slur if used right umm wrong?

      I try to look behind the words at intent and tone.

      Sadly that’s very difficult when written in short form statements lacking context

    • copygirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      5 months ago

      I have a feeling that the people that think “cis” is a slur just don’t understand what it means, or are outright transphobic.

      I recently had a guy admit he might be transphobic because he “prefers actual women”, and later uttered the sentence “maybe women don’t like to be called ‘cis women’?” and like, dude, it’s just an adjective that means the opposite of trans. But how dare we imply that trans women are women?!

      In the end, treating cis / cisgender as a slur is yet another way to attack trans people.

      • ted@sh.itjust.works
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        5 months ago

        Even if some queerfolk use cis in a snide way (which, ok, let’s see it?), it’s totally invalidated as a slur by the power imbalance. Cisfolk are not being hurt, losing jobs, or otherwise being discriminated on in the same way that real minorities are with their slurs and discrimination.

        Saying “cis” is a slur is like saying “cracker” is a slur, but even more ridiculous.