I consider myself generally uninterested in unconsensual kinks, but if I’m understanding biastophilia correctly (often tied to the more specific scenario of kidnapping and molestation, particularly strangers) then I’ve always had a latent draw for that kind of thing.
Reading about serial rapists who kidnap and violate strangers gets my heart racing. I guess the primary draw for me is the eroticism of the traumatic experience, hearing what the victim went through.
It’s never something that I would want to be involved in any capacity irl, but hearing about it never fails to get me at least a little aroused. I guess it’s not unlike some people’s fascination with serial killers, but with more of a direct sexual interest.
Still sort of figuring this out for myself but knowing that this is a thing helps crystalize things in my mind, for better or for worse. Would be curious to hear from others about their experiences and takes on biastophilia.
For me, my biastophilia is pretty directly related to my traumaphilia, which as I’m coming to understand is the only reason I have that attraction as an asexual. I’ve loved cases like BTK, but I am particularly fond of the Junko Furuta case due to how drawn out, intense, and interesting it is. I also find interest in kidnapping, which I think again all ties together. A complete stranger is mild to me, but someone who’s barely an acquaintance forcing onto someone? I like quite a lot… I’m not fond of cases that are one and done straight to jail or death, again all tied together because of the traumaphilia. I relate to you quite a bit.
Junko Furuta is a classic example. I agree with you on the drawn out nature of it. The amount of details we know about the timeline really sells it. The group nature enhances it for me, gang rape is hot hehe. Torture stuff can be really hit or miss for me but I usually find that stuff morbidly fascinating at least.
I love the more fascinating stuff. You know those “watch it for the plot” jokes? That’s always been me. There’s zero attraction to the plain, simple, and/or bland.
Agree so hard.
Real cases can be fascinating and fueling to me, but I always morph the events in my head so that the victim enjoys it one way or another. It’s still non-consensual, because their consent wasn’t asked or cared about, for all intents and purposes it’s still rape. Just with a fucked up masochist victim instead. That or a stockholm syndrome type thing where the victim doesn’t enjoy it at first, but does later. The victim’s pleasure is a very crucial part to me being able to enjoy the fantasies I’m having. Which probably doesn’t make much sense as a biastophile, but I’m still very drawn to the non-consensual, forceful, abductive, abusive nature of things. Fully consensual sex never arouses me.
It’s interesting that you mentioned serial killers, because having the rapist also being a serial killer really adds another layer of hotness to it for me. I like scenarios where the primary victim I’m fantasizing about sort of ‘impresses’ the criminal, and then he chooses not to murder them, but keep them, sometimes even train them. Yes it’s very idealized and catered to my specific interests. I’ve never been very attracted to realism. I do like it when the victim still has trauma from everything, and copes with it by becoming more unhinged and sexual.
I find it fascinating that you require both the victim to enjoy it and also not give their consent. I think I completely understand it though, I’ve always found it a lot more hot when victims get pleasure from stuff like this. Difference is I still find both fully consensual sex and full on rape with no pleasure for the victim hot. It’s all fantasy stuff anyway so it can be anything you want!
I agree that keeping the victim rather than killing them is hot. Keep them chained up in the basement as a toy. I heard of a real life case of a woman (Kala Brown I believe) being kidnapped and held in a shipping container as a sex slave for a few months. Iirc she managed to convince the criminal that she was into him and cooperated enough to stay alive. Very interesting and fucked up story.
Thank you! Yea the consent part to me just seems like formality. The idea of everyone involved in the fantasy getting together beforehand and agree to everything that will be done seems boring to me, it takes away all the surprise and fear and rawness of the fantasy. Although having the victim beg for more mid-scene would act as some type of consent, but in this case I do find it hot.
Interesting case! I’ve heard about a similar one, but I forgot the details.
