• Ep1cFac3pa1m@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Interesting how women have zero agency in either scenario…almost like the commenter sees women as accessories to men 🤷‍♂️

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    7 months ago

    Ah, the duality of womanhood. Should she be the victim of a pedophile or a sexual plaything for 50 dudes? Those are clearly the only two options.

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      7 months ago

      Plus there’s nothing wrong with having sex with lots of different people if that’s what she wants to do

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        Right, like… It’s certainly more people than I’ve had sex with, but if you’re being safe, learning about yourself and what you want, not getting into any emotional issues (for either party), and yes… having fun, great!

        Also, 50 partners is like one per month through 4 years in college. Not totally outrageous to be honest.

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    7 months ago

    This sounds like someone who may or may not be in his early thirties trying to justify dating people half his age. Creepy AF

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    I would rather see her make her own decisions

    Also, shouldn’t that 33 year old be mature enough to understand not to date 16 year olds?

    Half your age +7 rule my dude.

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    I think the best option for women is to get as far away from the creator of this post as possible.

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      7 months ago

      Well now, I’m not sure that’s the conclusion we can come to. I think this is a 33 year old trying to justify his desire to date a 16 year old.

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        And that 16 year olds don’t want to date them. If they were having plenty of success they wouldn’t be moaning about the “competition”. They seem to be asking for parents to push their kids to date older men as it’s a better choice (which it isn’t).

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    That’s assuming (a lot) about the 30 year old knowing more about “what women want” compared to their 16 year old self.

    When I was a kid I always assumed there would be a point in life where I’d feel like an adult. You don’t, you just get ground into the mould with responsibilities & stress!

    The only difference between me aged 30 & 16 is grey hairs & white knuckles. I know jack shit about “what women want”, other than “don’t be a dickhead”.

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    “What woman wants” yeah here’s your problem. They don’t all want the same thing shocker

    And nobody in their right mind would want to see teenage tantrums on their partner at age of 33. I have seen a lot older guys dating women under 18 and let me tell you something. Those guys aint exactly mature or winners. Or then they are just creeps

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    This 33 year old was the one giving those college girls emotional trauma when he was 18, wasn’t he?

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    You know even with that bullshit choice being posited, choice B all day.

    I wouldn’t shame my daughter, a college grad who apparently practiced impeccable safe sex if 50 dudes in 4 years leaves her with only emotional baggage.

    Good for you, hypothetical daughter.