• RedditWanderer@lemmy.world
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      3 hours ago

      This place is just as toxic as reddit lol, it was a valid question.

      Edit: and before people get confused by my username, I haven’t been back to reddit since the day RIF stopped working.

      • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nz
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        3 hours ago

        Exactly, gender isn’t important. You could have done the convenient thing and they/themed the imaginary waiter. Why did you choose to go to the effort of assigning a gender when gender has nothing to do with your point?

      • Sop@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        6 hours ago

        It’s not an attack, you don’t need to get so defensive. It just stood out to me.